Are you ‘doing’ it?
Are you ‘doing’ it?
The language of love is simply to listen, to witness without judgement. 🦋
Today I asked my body what she needed,
Which is a big deal
Considering my journey of
Not Really Asking That Much.
I thought she might need more water.
But as I stood in the shower
Reflecting on her stretch marks,
Her roundness where I would like flatness,
Her softness where I would like firmness,
All those conditioned wishes
That form a bundle of
She whispered very gently: “Could you just love me like this?”
~ Hollie Holden (June 2016)
When a woman respects herself, she intrinsically commands reciprocation and should she not receive it, she will invite you to step up your game or to step off of her playing field, as she would expect you to.
Should you mistakenly demand that she compromise her integrity, dreams or happiness for your own standards and needs, she will not hesitate to walk away, as she would expect you to.
An empowered woman knows that her every choice matters and that her best choice, regardless of how challenging it may be, is to act in harmony with her soul’s code and the whispers of her heart, as she would expect you to.
An empowered woman esteems her inherent worth, dignity and honour and she expects that your love for her will always champion her essential self, as her love for you champions yours. 🦋
Today is only one day in all the days that will ever be. But what will happen in all the other days that ever come can depend on what you do today.
~ Ernest Hemingway
Throughout the past few millenniums, tomes have been written, talks have been scripted, motivational speakers have enlightened, coaches and consultants have been hired on a subject matter that only requires a two worded mantra, ‘Do It’, followed up by a whole lot of more ‘Do Its’ and of course heaps of befitting action.
Success, is defined as the accomplishment of an aim or purpose. Nike got it right in 1988 with their timeless inspirational tag line, ‘Just do it’.
The magic bullet for success? Simply, recognize that success is not a noun but verb, a lot of verbs strung together to the very end.
‘Do It’ till it’s done. 🦋
Close your eyes and imagine the best version of ‘YOU’ possible. That’s whom you really are! Let the spirit of your authentic self pull you in the direction of the life you love to live.
~ Judit 🦋