Creating New Realities …

365 Opportunities …

2018 = 365 opportunities to reimagine, influence and shape your inner and outer world, so that your life, work, relationships and day-to-day experiences are a true reflection of you, the unique, authentic and empowered you. Now that’s something to be excited about. Hello 2018!

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Do It Scared …

Because courage is a part of our DNA, fear is not a reason to not do something, it’s an excuse. Courage is ‘doing it’ scared!

Our feelings determine what we value, what is important and meaningful for us to feel happy, fulfilled and successful in our lives.

For every aspect of your life such as relationships, career, family, finances, health and recreation ask yourself these four questions;

What do I want to feel?

What am I willing to do to feel the way I want to feel?

What am I willing to stop doing to feel the way I want to feel?

What is my first step towards fulfillment?

Au Revoir …

Detox, declutter, dispose all toxic relationships that hurt your heart and soul. 🦋

Desire, Own It!

We are desire.

It is the essence of the human soul, the secret of our existence.

Absolutely nothing of human greatness is ever accomplished without it. Not a symphony has been written, a mountain climbed, an injustice fought, or a love sustained apart from desire.

Desire fuels our search for the life we prize. Our desire, if we will listen to it, will save us from committing soul-suicide, the sacrifice of our hearts on the altar of “getting by.”

The same old thing is not enough.

It never will be.

John Eldridge

Roses With Thorns.

A soulmate relationship isn’t all peaches and cream, it’s roses with thorns.

To Every Woman

To every woman, do not allow him to consume you, it is the consumption that will kill your soul, that will destroy your self respect, that will take from you when you are not looking.

Sometimes love attacks you in ways you least expect it, and the person who said that love is not a destructive thing lied to you – love can be a terribly destructive thing, only if you let it.

You are responsible for your own happiness always, and your emotional well being depends on how you react to a situation, how you respond to him when you find yourself in a relationship and it isn’t making you happy.

If he does not call, go to sleep. If he does not message, put your phone away and have a fantastic day anyway. If he acts distant when you are with him and refuses to tell you what is wrong even when you ask over and over again, don’t wait for him, go home and do something you love.

If he tries to insinuate you do not need your friends now that you have him, never stop spending time with your friends.

If he tries to teach you a lesson through the silent treatment, ignore him completely. Do not allow him to take your attention completely away from anything that was in your life before him, whether it is family, your friends and the things you love.

Keep your friendships. Your friends have been there for you through many many relationships and they will be through many more. Giving them up for a man, even the best of men is a bad idea. And a good man will never ever ask you to give your friends up for him.

Most importantly, do not allow anyone to emotionally manipulate you in any way, shape or form. Recognise the signs. Someone who loves you will make mistakes, but they will respect you. Someone who is using you will not respect you and will take every chance to drain your happiness for what they need from you.

If he plays with your feelings constantly, walk away from him. If he acts like your body is his entitlement when you are not ready, walk away from him. If he says terrible, unforgivable things and threatens to leave you after every argument, walk away from him. If he forbids you from doing anything you love, walk away from him. If he claims ownership of your accomplishments, walk away from him. If he demeans you or disrespects your being a girl and refuses to stop when you tell him it hurts, walk away from him. If he tries to suggest he should always be the most important thing in your life, walk away from him.

I cannot stress this enough, you live for yourself first. He is a secondary character in the story of your life. Do not allow him to turn you into a secondary character in your own book.

~ Nikita Gill

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