Life will break you.
Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning.
You have to love.
You have to feel.
It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up.
And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness.
Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.
~ Louise Erdrich, The Painted Drum
When we change our inner world of thoughts and feelings, our newly aligned behaviour begins to effect our outer world and we awaken to what we innately know that ‘yes’ we are a spark of the divine creating the moments of our life. 🦋
Wondering why the quality of your life experiences are what they are?
Listen to your thoughts, self-talk, judgments and interpretations.
Feel your feelings.
Witness your reactions, behaviour and deeds.
Without exception everything we feel, do, and experience are the results of our thoughts of whom we believe we are.
Inherently, by design, we are free to choose what we think, what we believe.
We can choose to carry on or we can choose to reimagine. 🦋
‘Creating New Realities’ begins with understanding the unifying trinity that underpins our experiences throughout our lifetime. 🦋
The compelling reason for almost everything we do or not do is to feel one of our coveted feelings. What are your coveted feelings and what do you usually do to feel them? 🦋
Thoughts inspire feelings. Change your thoughts and you will feel differently. Yes, but you can’t really change your thinking until you are aware of your thoughts and you understand them. 🦋
Our feelings determine what we value, what is important and meaningful for us to feel happy, fulfilled and successful in our lives.
For every aspect of your life such as relationships, career, family, finances, health and recreation ask yourself these four questions;
What do I want to feel?
What am I willing to do to feel the way I want to feel?
What am I willing to stop doing to feel the way I want to feel?
What is my first step towards fulfillment?
Our thoughts, feelings and imagination ‘create our reality’ …
~ Judit e. Szabo
A blooming happy life … happy thoughts, happy feelings, happy activities …
~ Judit e. Szabo
If we can enthusiastically imagine ‘doing it’ or ‘having it’ then in all likelihood we will. Our thoughts, feelings and behaviour naturally move towards that which we vividly believe is true. That is the secret. The wonderful mystery of how we make ‘it’ so.
~ Judit e. Szabo
You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life.
It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend or new acquaintance.
You don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small.
It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and makes an effort to change.
But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and “continues” to treat you in a harmful way, they have to go.
~ Danielle Koepke
Believe that with your feelings and your work you are taking part in the greatest;
the more strongly you cultivate this belief,
the more will reality and the world go forth from it.
~ Rainer Maria Rilke