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Feeling Safe …


When we are listening to respond we can’t hear the other person … when we are listening to understand … our personal agendas are put aside and our response or non-response will naturally empower the situation …

~ Judit e. Szabo

(Note: I agree with John Gray and I would like to add that the above also applies to women listening to men.)

I Don’t Trust You And That’s O.K.

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I don’t place much credence on trusting people … not because they are untrustworthy … because it is a moot point … to be human is to err … inevitably people blunder … as such my trust is fully focused on trusting myself … my ability to have and to hold the unavoidable slings and arrows of outrageous behaviour … I trust in my resiliency … therein lies my superpower in relationships.

~ Judit e. Szabo

Illustration: Kelly Murphy

The Secrets of Happy Couples …


Happy Relationships … Respect, Trust, Appreciative Communication, Laughter and Intimacy …

~ Judit e. Szabo

People Are …

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The way you see people is the way you treat them, and the way you treat them is what they become.

~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Artist: Judith Redman

Sunday Reflection …



The Success Quotient…

If your emotional abilities aren’t in hand, if you don’t have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can’t have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far. ~ Daniel Goleman ( Emotional Intelligence)

Emotional Intelligence is a way of recognizing, understanding, and choosing how we think, feel, and act. It shapes our interactions with others and our understanding of ourselves. It defines how and what we learn; it allows us to set priorities; it determines the majority of our daily actions. Research suggests it is responsible for as much as 80% of the “success” in our lives. ~ Ph.D Anabel L. Jensen, Marsha C. Rideout, Patricia E. Freedman, Joshua M. Freedman  (Handle With Care: Emotional Intelligence Activity Book)

In the last decade or so, science has discovered a tremendous amount about the role emotions play in our lives. Researchers have found that even more than IQ, your emotional awareness and abilities to handle feelings will determine your success and happiness in all walks of life, including family relationships. ~ John Gottman (Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child)

It is very important to understand that emotional intelligence is not the opposite of intelligence, it is not the triumph of heart over head — it is the unique intersection of both. ~ David Caruso (Emotional What?)

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